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How has your life changed since starting college?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 06:05

How has your life changed since starting college?

From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.

It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

Note- You can skip to the main part.

Have you ever had your crush reject you, and then later you all dated and married?

How has your life changed since starting college?

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

Let’s come to the answer.

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I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.

I’ve become more responsible.

From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.

I can’t get any girl I want, but I can just get some not my type of girls, so I feel I’m so ugly. What should I do?

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

-Hitesha.

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

Why do I keep dreaming of my mom, who recently passed away from cancer, still being sick and in pain?

I’ve realized the real value of money.

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

Have husbands and wives ever had a threesome with someone in real life? How did it happen?

For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

Is it safe to say that China is at least 30 years ahead of India?

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

Do you think most people would rather be a certain race or are most people happy with the race they are?

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From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

Thanks for reading my answer.

What is your daily motivation and does it work?

I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

What are your darkest taboo confessions?

There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

Do straight guys like to have sex with men when they smoke meth?

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.

Backstory-

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

Should I have left it alone and kept quiet? I came out as gay to my adult kids last week. Age 61 married 15 years, divorced for 20. I feel so guilty for ruining their lives by living a lie.

made friends

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

Confidence is the key.

Why do good-looking men date homely women?

I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.

In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.